
From The Desk of Rick Dalton, "America's #1 Crusader for Helping Men Find Love"
Updated February 24th, 2007. 8:46am.
Dear Future Attractor:
If you’ve never had a girlfriend before, that's fine. Just don’t give me the "I feel bad for myself" bullshit.
You’ve got loads of time still to date women. And if you learn how to attract girls starting now, you’ll have so many girls in your future you’ll forget you ever had trouble at all.
Get ready to move forward with your life, with a brighter approach to the future...
Plain and simple. The reason you haven’t had a girlfriend is because people have been feeding you shit.
Your mom says “compliment her.” Your grandma says “be nice and give her flowers.” Your friends say “just be yourself.” But what does that mean?
People told me all kinds of crap when I was growing up, and all it did was confuse me even more. Be myself? “Myself” was a guy who couldn’t get date!
Listen, I was always a good guy. I worked hard to get good grades in school, played sports, tried to do the right things, got involved in organizations … and just expected girls to date me if I acted normally.
Didn’t happen.
I tried acting cocky. Acting suave. Acting like a badass. Again, nothing.
Then... Brian talked to me. In real terms. And after that, it all changed.
Brian was a weird guy. He was 5’8”, maybe 130lbs at the most, and he had a strange fascination with Rambo that made everyone who knew him fear slightly for their lives.
Even at a huge college, Brian didn’t have many friends. He didn’t care. Sure, there was his best bud Eggo (the only person who could beat Brian at Halo) … but Eggo barely talked, and almost never left his dorm room.
Brian didn’t go out much either. I’d never see him at parties. I’d never see him at bars. And he’d walk straight to class and back without stopping to talk or making any other plans. Again, really weird kid.
But there was one thing about Brian that made me fascinated by him: He ALWAYS had a girlfriend.
In the four years I knew him, Brian had 7 girlfriends, and was never single for more than two or three days at a time. The last girl he dated senior year – a tall, beautiful brunette named Sandra who I thought was way out of his league – he ended up marrying after dating her three more years.
So when I asked Brian about girls sophomore year, I expected a “who knows, grab a beer” like all the other guys say. But instead his eyes got big, and he said this…
“Rick, don’t you know why you don’t get girls? God, this is SO OBVIOUS…”
Turns out, Brian wasn’t a born natural around women. In fact, he told me he never kissed a girl in high school. But Brian was one of those rare, incredibly intelligent people you meet in life who faced the impossible, and found a way to figure it out.
Over the next two hours, he revealed to me everything he knew about girls.
He told me exactly how to treat girls so they’ll be attracted to you.
And as he revealed each eye-opening nugget of information, I felt myself thinking beyond what everyone had told me in the past, and the new way - Brian’s way - just felt right. It's a hard feeling to explain.
“And that’s all you have to do.” said Brian once he finished. He turned away, picked up his controller, and challenged Eggo to a Halo match. I sat there dumbfounded.
Holy shit. It was obvious why my ways weren’t working. And all it took for me to understand that was one person – who really knew how girls think – to tell me how to do it the right way.
After all, understanding women is achingly simple. Think about it… weren’t there guys in your 7th grade who got girls all the time? (Face it, you don’t have to be a genius to figure this stuff out…)
I went to a party that night. Spotted a cute blonde named Jenny and got the courage to walk directly up to her. The whole time I felt my body shaking. At times, I barely got the words out. But I kept Brian’s method in mind.
An hour later, I walked - no, SKIPPED - out of the party with her number, feeling like I'd just conquered Everest. And with that, a new way of life - with more girls than I ever thought possible – was born.
I’ve gotten really good with women. I’ve had dozens of girlfriends since I first met (and dated) Jenny. And I’ve gotten numbers from hundreds of great girls in between – all while being kind, chivalrous, and keeping my natural personality.
Over the years, other guys would watch me at bars and parties and ask me what my secret was. I told them what I knew (by that time I’d developed my own methods that took Brian’s teachings to a new level), and helped them discover how to get a girlfriend as well.
Here are some of the guys that I’ve helped in the past…
"I didn't think it was possible to attract girls and still be a nice guy... until you showed me how."
“I met you when I was 22, and I hadn’t had a date since high school. In terms of serious relationships, I had never had a girlfriend before. When you told me I could get a girlfriend in less than four weeks, I honestly didn’t believe you.
I mean, I saw how my friends got girlfriends. A lot of them were cocky or just plain mean. I don't want to be a jerk to women. But I didn't think it was possible to attract girls and still be a nice guy... until you showed me how.
Three weeks later, I used your techniques and approached my female friend Dana that I was interested in. I was hesitant at first, but I knew it was working when she said "I’ve never seen this side of you before!”
That night, she came to my house for dinner, and we've been dating ever since! Thanks a bunch."
— Oliver J. Champaign, IL
“She’s completely in love with me. It’s a nice feeling to have.”
“I had a lot of female friends, but none wanted to be more than that. You immediately showed me what I was doing wrong and how to get a girlfriend, not just a friend.
Now, for the past 8 months I’ve been in a relationship with a gorgeous blonde named Carrie. And the greatest part about it is she’s completely in love with me. It’s a nice feeling to have.”
— Pat M. Boulder, CO
“... That beautiful girl I thought I had no chance with is still with me today...
“I hate to admit it, but I was a virgin when I met you. On weekends, I’d play hours of online poker as an excuse to not go out. Of course, the real reason I didn’t go out was I was scared to fail around women.
You told me some crazy tips for meeting women that were completely different than anything I’d heard before. But just two days later, I went to a bar and that beautiful girl I thought I had no chance with is still with me today."
— Mike C. Pittsburgh, PA
Each of my students had their unique obstacles that kept them from meeting women, whether it was insecurity ... a poor self-image ... crippling doubt ... or the unwillingness to try. But every single one of them had this one thing in common: They all thought women didn't find them sexy. How wrong they were!
Listen, you're a guy. Naturally, women find guys sexy. And I guarantee you more girls find you secretly sexy than you think. When I proved this to guys (usually by asking girls directly: "Would you have given him your number if he was more confident?"), their self-image soared, their insecurities evaporated, they stopped caring about things outside their control, and they were more willing to give their best around girls each day.
Then, when I took them a step further and introduced specific techniques to increase their attractiveness, well... that's when they started becoming the center of attention at parties, clubs and at school - and getting numbers from whichever girl they wanted to approach.
In all, I’ve helped over two hundred guys find a girlfriend. Nearly every guy who tried my methods got them to work for him. They were dating within weeks.
Literally every method I taught to all 200+ hard luck guys (including everything Brian told me on that very first day) can be in your palms in minutes.
On top of everything I’ve mentioned earlier, I’ve included my original tips, tricks and techniques I’ve tested with girls to help you get a girlfriend even faster. This isn't theory, this is stuff I learned through experience - through taking the hard knocks, so you don't have to.
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(Update! Adam K. recently called me from Paris. They were on vacation, and they just got engaged!)
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In my 60 page course, there’s four chapters and seven topics in all. When we start a new topic, I give you a few simple tips to get you started on the right foot. Master those, and I give you a little more… guiding you step-by-step, carefully and precisely till you understand women and how to behave around them.
If you just do the simple exercises I give you to understand women, you'll notice it will become easy for you to turn things around and become more proactive in life - a life which includes a girlfriend.
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Yours For Attraction Secrets (And Getting The Girlfriend Of Your Dreams!),
Rick Dalton
HowToGetAGirlfriendGuide.com
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